Today for the first day my blog has achieved and started to do what I hoped it would do, give courage and freedom to people like me, who have also been treated and thrown in the “too hard” or “it’s in your head” baskets to not feel afraid, and are not alone in telling their stories. The more we do this, the more we are united I believe that we can make a bigger difference in the world on educating health professionals and the general public about unseen/ invisible illnesses.
This wonderful person reached out to me and had the courage to share with me their story, however in terms of this blog and their privacy, they have chosen to remain anonymous and out of respect I shall do that. I am just glad that they were able to share their story none the less.
This is their story:
“I just wanted to let you know I both cried and cheered reading your story! I feel so so sorry for what you had to go through. Makes me angry. My story is very long over a decade, and now I’m telling you because I’m amazed that someone else has been made to feel how I did and still do as my pain journey has not finished unfortunately. I had a simple labrum tear in my hip.”
A hip labral tear involves the ring of cartilage, called the labrum, that follows the outside rim of the socket of your hip joint. The labrum acts like a rubber seal or gasket to help hold the ball at the top of your thighbone securely within your hip socket.
” I was mis- diagnosed for 18 months with everything from post natal depression to depression and attention seeking thrown at me. I’ve since had hip replacement after years and years of battling again for help then back surgery because of a chiropractor that bulged 2 of my disks, another surgery for that, and after waiting nearly a year for a DR to listen.
I was called anorexic by people because I couldn’t eat from medication side effects and the constant amount of pain.. And now post 1 week after having my nerve block done my muscle cramping and headaches have not subsided due to poor posture and loss of muscle from not recovering from hip and back was damaged 12 weeks after that huge surgery.
Osteo has worked on me just this Thursday and was amazed at how lop sided my body is due to muscle miss alignment. I have a weekend right arm as I type with nerve pain running from shoulder to wrist . My recovery is going to take forever because I was not taken seriously in forever 😞 I’m 43 and I live in the body of a 90 yr old drives me crazy!”
Anyway that was long winded , thank you for sharing your journey it makes me feel less mental and a lot stronger about telling the medical profession . That I know my bloody body and to help me. Best wishes for you I hope your pain has gone for good you deserve a break xx ”
And I too thank this amazing person for having the strength and courage to open up to me and now the rest of you and share their incredible story which they are still writing, but please everyone remember you are not alone! There are others out there like you! We no longer need to hide, or feel embarrassed. Time to fight, stand up and believe in ourselves, we know our pain, our bodies, our stories and no matter what anyone tells you, you know best! Together if we are united we can help raise awareness about the Reality of Unseen/ Invisible Illnesses.
P.S. If you have a story you would like to share please send it to: firstname.lastname@example.org